Up to date on the past

I have always wondered how Mr. X passed away. I got my answer from his sister. In return I also learned the outcome of the gang from the back when.

X had been unheard from for three years. When they did get a phone call they were told he was found unconscious in a motel in Anchorage, Alaska. He was delayed in conversations during his stay in a hospital and a few weeks later he passed. He’s buried in Randlett, UT.

X’s sister passed too. I imagine it was all of the alcohol abuse, and health issues. This sister, we called her “Shush” (bear) she was huge and she was mean.. and I am not kidding you, she was M E A N. And the older brothers passed, the uncle and his mom.

X’s niece. She is doing ok but grossly overweight, and can’t hear well. Her son answers her phone calls for her. This ‘son’ I use to help care for back then. One day on her way back home she got into a bad car accident and messed her up. She had a bad leg, and so she never exercise, causing her to gain weight.

Me and this niece, we did a lot of crazy stuff together. A lot of crazy stuff..

X’s nephew he is still drinking and running around. He just got out of Federal Prison last year.

I called her again, and she told me her life story. We laughed and shared stories. It was nice to talk to her.

I’m just amazed how many people passed in twenty years.

My Mother-n-law
My father
My foster dad
My brother
My sister-n-law
My brother’s kids (nephew and niece)
My friends/relatives
My Ex and part of his family
O, and let's not forget that guy.. 'arranged marriage' dad put on me.. he died too.

Except for my Foster Dad and my Mother-in-law, they all died from alcoholism and/or Domestic Violence. Think about that.