Monday, August 17, 2009

Yesterday, tomorrow.. days fly by..



We had Troy with us Saturday, so that was pretty neat. He spent the night here and we took him shopping the next day for school. Clothes, leisure activity stuff, and more clothes.. We gotta get his bike out and he's taking his basketball hoop with him. He is so happy around here, but there still some of that needing for acceptance. That night we took him to the fair and he got to run around and be independent... Now, I am confused about our relationship. Am I still pushing him away, or does he like the idea of being his own person?? I don't know.

Thursday Hubby is taking him for shoes and additional school supplies. We don't just "BUY" him stuff and send him home. It's one of the things we taught him when he was here. You work for your money, don't be a beggar and don't look for easy way out. That still applies here. Ya want money, then ya gotta work for it. And yes, he pulled weeds and helped Hubbs with work around here.

Mom told me, they were going to take him shopping, but found out 'someone' cleaned out her saving acct. Makes me mad, but can't do a heck of a lot... Not for the fact they couldn't go shopping, but having her savings cleaned out. There was some upsetting things she told me went on, but again it's her home. I told her, now is the time to start getting ready for WINTER. They shouldn't have a problem. She has plenty of boys or I guess we could call them MEN, somehow. Grown boys should be getting prepared for winter, and nothing is being done. If they move then, no problem I will bring wood and coal and food.. whatever I can to help mom out. It's real petty but Raquel is pregnant again, with another loser. I just roll my eyes and feel sorry for the unborn babe. I know it's God's work..

She told me they might be 'moving' to somewhere.. I just want to grab him by the ear and tell him to GROW UP and be responsible.. most importantly pay back the people he took from.

Grandson and I are leaving for town.. so chat with ya soon..